Got married in March just gone
Did it our way, with no interfering. The only people that knew we were getting married were the closest of close friends (maybe half a dozen, tops), our closest family (parents and grandparents) and my boss (he guessed when I asked to book holiday so far in advance).
We had an entire week in a lovely spa/b&b in Norfolk called The Pigs (part of the Byfords Group of b&bs), arrived on the Monday, married on the Tuesday (nearby reg. office) and left on the Thursday. Ate in all of our favourite pubs/restaurants around the North Norfolk coast, had a truly relaxed week and it cost us just short of £3k all in (that includes dress for her, suit for me, photographer for the day, accommodation, food, fuel etc. the lot!)
Weddings don't have to be expensive, but they do have to be perfect, and they don't have to be expensive to be perfect.
Plus - an excellent excuse to buy a new watch! Bought (sort of) matching watches for my wife and I - Junghans Max Bill Auto for me, and the Max Bill Damen for her. Bonus!